“I found myself in a rather difficult situation and I need advice, maybe someone else has experienced something similar and maybe they can tell me how to get out of this situation.
I have been married for several years and I have a mother-in-law who is very abusive. We live together. She seems to be a normal woman, she is not quarrelsome and at first glance, she is not doing anything wrong, but I am under the usual psychological abuse.
She is a housewife and the housework is the main thing for her, but this means that she thinks that she is a professor in this matter (and she is not really) and she thinks that she knows everything, everything has to be her way and everything she says and does is right.
For example, no matter how well I fold the mattress, he will come and refold it to make it exactly how he wants it. No matter how well I spread the laundry, it will come and spread again. If I am cooking, he will stand by me and give me notes that it is better this way and that it is not. He gets involved in absolutely every detail like that, quietly and quietly, but so
It made me tense and complex, I prefer him to fight. I can’t vote either. I can’t vote either. However, how should I hang out and spend time when we often stay together at home and I have to deal with it all the time. Of course, I don’t feel like a housewife either. I am like a guest. He also constantly interferes with raising children, there is no chance that he will try to teach me to do something independently – he will run out and do it himself if I try to do something myself… I am very tired of these approaches and not saying anything, and I used to write to my friend in Messenger, this would break my heart.
One day, the courier brought something and suddenly I stepped into the yard to receive it. I left the phone with the messenger open on the seat.
It started tickling and this mother-in-law of mine came, she read everything… She met me in such a way, I can’t describe it. He put me through a terrible scene, he embarrassed me, called me ungrateful, and what do I know, he told me quietly and calmly (no sound should come out of the house – the head of an ideal family is always sheltered, but she also argues with her husband all the time, and my father-in-law cheated all his life…). Now I’m in this situation, it’s news. My husband doesn’t know yet and I don’t know what to do…
Choose something…”
Anano, 29 years old
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